30 Day Challenge: Day 2

Your favorite and least favorite celebrity.

My favorite celebrity is obviously Shemar Moore, there's no question about it. But on a more serious note (since I mainly love him for his unbelievably hot looks), my favorite celebrity is probably Kate Veogele. She is beautiful and her voice is amazing. Kate is so real and doesn't have to be something she is not to be popular and famous. I adore that about her.

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My least favorite celebrity? Easy. Ke$ha. I'm spelling her name with the dollar sign out of respect, but otherwise I think that's stupid.

I'm not sure why I don't like her, I just don't. She's just one of those people that I see and they annoy me. The way she sings in that weird voice, the way she dresses, and the way she acts in interviews, concerts, etc. It's all too much.

I'm just completely annoyed at the thought of her. I guess you could call me a hater, but I don't technically "hate" her. I just don't like her.

30 Day Challenge: Day 1

A controversal topic and what side you are on.

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Oh, a controversial topic I talk about a lot is the death penalty. So many people are for this, and I must admit, they have good reasoning. But I am 99.9% against it.

The other .1% we will get to in a second.

I understand that the death penalty is made to keep the nation safer and free of psycho killers, but if we kill them (no matter what the reason or method), how are we any better than they are?

Yes, yes, an innocent life is a lot different than one of a murderer but that is not for us to determine.

Life, nature, God...those should be the people and things that decide when someone is going to die. Not humans.

Now I know I haven't won anyone over yet, and I'm not trying to. I just want you to understand where I am coming from.

Not only is it, in my opinion, just as inhumane as any other type of murder (because YES, the death penalty is murder), but it is also inconvenient.

It's expensive to kill someone using lethal injection. It can cost up to $2 million for one prosecution. As opposed to life in prison which in some cases, are only $500,000 in comparison.


Killing is wrong.

If it's okay to kill someone because they are a murderer, etc., is it okay to kill my neighbor when I have a problem with them? Is death an okay penalization for wrong doing?

Also, when you kill a murderer who already has nothing to live for, how in the hell is that punishment? Keeping him in prison for life is what I call punishment. That is real torture.

The .1% of an exception is if you are a crazy murderer who keeps escaping from jail and cannot be tamed, then I will put my foot down (after dozens of attempts to control the psycho, of course) and allow the death penalty.

But, seriously, even that sickens me.

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No matter what side you are on, the main thing is that killing is wrong. Period. No matter what.

I can't believe that it's even legal.




*For more info and facts about the death penalty and why I'm against it, visit http://www.antideathpenalty.org.

Introducing...My 30 Day Blog Challenge

I know I really failed my last 30 Day Challenge but I think it's because I don't really like any of the questions/challenges.

So, I created an all new challenge for myself! This way I'll actually want to post everyday.

It's going to be simple, easy, and best of all, fun.

1. A controversial topic and which side you are on.
2. Your favorite and least favorite celebrity.
3. Your biggest fear.
4. A weird habit.
5. Something no one would guess about you.
6. Top five favorite movies.
7. A phrase or saying you don't like.
8. Your best and worst high school memory.
9. What's number one on your bucket list?
10. Describe your perfect life.
11. Christmas or Thanksgiving?
12. Another weird habit.
13. Three pet peeves.
14. Worst thing you've ever eaten.
15. Your best and worst boyfriend or girlfriend.
16. Something you recently did that you are very proud of.
17. Best thing you have ever done for someone.
18. Something you're craving.
19. Something you recently did that you are not very proud of.
20. Favorite candy, food, drink and restaurant.
21. Dog or cat?
22. Something big going on in your life right now.
23. Five things you've been obsessed with lately.
24. A secret not even your best friends know.
25. Three more pet peeves.
26. A picture.
27. Do you believe in supernatural things?
28. Something you're worrying about.
29. Five goals in your life.
30. Pick a different celebrity that you would: kiss, have sex with, marry, and date

Are you ready? First post starts Tuesday.

Deja Vu?

First things first, if you haven't already, read this post from last Halloween before you read this actual post. Otherwise you will be totally lost on what is going on.

Okay so last night Sabrina called and asked me if I wanted to go out with her tomorrow (tomorrow now meaning today). Her mom had an extra ticket for a show and allowed her to bring a friend.

I, of course, said yes. I had nothing better to do and it sounded fun.

While we were on the line her mom called from work to ask if Sabrina had decided who she was going to bring. When Sabrina told her it was me she immediately said no and that she didn't want me to come. When Sabrina asked why her mom said that "we will talk about it when I get home" and she hung up.

Sabrina and I stayed on the phone about an hour after talking about why she wouldn't want me to come. Only one thing crossed our mind, last Halloween.

Remember how I said her mom was yelling at me? Well apparently she is still upset about that night.

So when her mom got home Saturday night Sabrina, once again, asked her why she didn't want me to come.

Her mom would never give her a straight answer except that she didn't like me and didn't want me there.

She doesn't even know me! The time she really met me was that Halloween night and that barely counts since I didn't even know I wasn't supposed to be there. Apparently she didn't want Sabrina and her sister to go trick or treating with anyone outside of the family (for whatever reason).

How was I supposed to know? NO ONE TOLD ME. Not even Sabrina!

Back to the story, Sabrina called me the next day (today) and asked if I still wanted to go to the show. I said no since I was uncomfortable with it now that I know how much her mom dislikes me. Plus, I was busy and didn't feel like going out anymore.

It reminds me a lot of Eva and when her parents did not want us to hang out. Am I right? It seems like things are coming back in other forms, like a rebirth of events almost. Weird.

I'm still wondering though what made her mom decide to let me come, even if I said no, I wonder why her mom changed her mind. By the sounds of it she really didn't like me and wanted nothing to do with me.

The Conclusion

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Remember Tuesday when I posted about Sabrina and how angry I was at her? Well once again, like the cycle has done before, everything is back to normal.

I didn't get a chance to talk to her about it and tell her how angry I was. I forgot to. Once I remembered it was too late. I mean, I guess it wasn't but who randomly gets angry with their friends after they have been having a good conversation for minutes? Not this girl.

I did, however, mentally tell myself that I wasn't going to refer to her as my best friend until I truly felt that she was. For now, friend will do.

I think by constantly telling myself we were best friends I was just hoping that one day it would actually feel like we were. But it doesn't it feels like we are two people who know a lot about each other but are not very close.

That's not a best friend in my book.

To me, a best friend is Eva. Someone, regardless of how many times I get angry with her, who is respectful of my feelings and actually acknowledges them rather than feeling that she is right all of the time. Someone who not only cares for me but cares for our friendship. Someone I can completely trust, with anything, no matter what. Someone I love, for no reason except that she is that amazing. Someone who I couldn't live without.

It's a shame that not all of those things describe Sabrina.

Until she gives me a reason to think otherwise, Sabrina is just a friend to me.